Jan 182013
 

Help Wanted:  Passionate adult to commit to vital mission.  Successful candidate will embrace the mission in 120-hour workweek with no financial compensation.  Must be committed to creating better future for children and care enough to do the hard stuff.  Parents, grandparents, foster parents, babysitters, teachers and coaches may apply.  Preference given to those who apply as a team and are able to remember that “you’re not raising children – you’re raising future adults!”

 Want the job?  Already have it?  Congratulations.  You’re in good company.  The ‘right candidate’ is hardworking, disciplined, giving and refuses to quit – that’s you, isn’t it? And you’re here – looking for ideas and support for the most important job you’ll ever have.

 Most of our material is not based on scientific study – it’s simply a look at vibrant, successful people who are achieving their goals and living their dreams.  More importantly, it’s a look at the ways that they have used some tough lessons from their early years to move closer and closer to their dreams.

 What is it that you want for your kids?  Financial wealth and the freedom it can buy?  Optimism and the ability to get back up one more time?  Physical fitness and healthy dietary habits?  How about a great work ethic?  Passion?  Vision?  Goal setting?

 Negotiating the delicate balance between a strong foundation and lofty ideals isn’t easy…. but that’s part of what sets you apart – the example that you set by backing up your caring with a commitment to learning.

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Jan 182013
 

If you think that the TV ads your children are seeing is “age appropriate” read on.

Parents who are concerned about underage drinking might be interested to discover that youth exposure to alcohol advertising on TV has risen by more than a third (!) since the Center on Alcohol Marketing and Youth began monitoring this it in 2001.

Why should parents care about this? In 2007 (the last complete data) about 20% of TV ads for alcohol were placed on programming more likely to be viewed by 12- 20 years olds than by people of legal drinking age.

According to a recent Surgeon General’s report underage drinking is responsible for about 5,000 deaths per year. In addition, that office tells us that people who start drinking before the age of 15 (vs. those who wait until they are 21) are 5 times more likely to experience alcohol-related problems later in life.

And advertising works.

Want to find out more about the specifics of this advertising in your TV-viewing ‘market’. Click here and scroll down to the big town closest to you.

Jan 152013
 
Cleanup in Times Square after New Year's celeb...

(Cleanup in Times Square after New Year’s celebration. Photo credit: Wikipedia)

 

I often hear that it takes twenty one days to develop a new habit…  Sometimes, however, when learning that new habit, we forget to pair it with developing the discipline needed to continue to take action.  Consistency helps to develop our self-discipline ‘muscle.’

Although people have a variety of work styles, there are chores and activities that need to be accomplished every single day, not just once in a while.  Your dentist probably wouldn’t be happy if you ‘saved up’ and did all of your brushing and flossing just before your office visits!

Activities that may not be daily can still follow consistent patterns.  Take a look at the patterns and rhythms of life in your family.  What routines do you have for things like homework, spiritual practice, independent reading or family meals?  How about for saving money, grocery shopping or vacation planning?

Children can learn about consistency in a variety of ways, ranging from “we always take our shoes off when we come into the house” to “When Grandma sends a gift you write a ‘thank you’ before you use it.”

They also learn from our example.  What are you teaching in this new year?  Are you teaching your kids that they should ‘crash diet’ for a couple of weeks and then quit?  Or, does you example show them that with consistency and self discipline, small changes over time yield big results?