Sep 112012
 

Learning to participate in the work that keeps a family functioning isn’t necessarily all dusting and sorting socks.

Would your kids enjoy planning and preparing a meal for the family?  How about  allowing them to plan a weekend outing?  Or, if they’re older, doing some of the research for a family trip? Creating music playlists for various family celebrations?

Family outing, from Robert N. Dennis collectio...

Family outing, from Robert N. Dennis collection of stereoscopic views (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

Trusting our children with responsibility (and letting them meet it) lets them know that we see them as competent and capable.  That’s a powerful way to build confidence.

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Aug 202012
 

While working on another project I came across the following poem and discovered this is also Guest’s birthday.  Couldn’t resist the image.  Enjoy.

Oscar Pistorius

Oscar Pistorius (Photo credit: Karva Javi)

It Couldn’t Be Done

Somebody said that it couldn’t be done,
But he with a chuckle replied
That “maybe it couldn’t,” but he would be one
Who wouldn’t say so till he’d tried.
So he buckled right in with the trace of a grin
On his face. If he worried he hid it.
He started to sing as he tackled the thing
That couldn’t be done, and he did it.

Somebody scoffed: “Oh, you’ll never do that;
At least no one ever has done it”;
But he took off his coat and he took off his hat,
And the first thing we knew he’d begun it.
With a lift of his chin and a bit of a grin,
Without any doubting or quiddit,
He started to sing as he tackled the thing
That couldn’t be done, and he did it.

There are thousands to tell you it cannot be done,
There are thousands to prophesy failure;
There are thousands to point out to you, one by one,
The dangers that wait to assail you.
But just buckle in with a bit of a grin,
Just take off your coat and go to it;
Just start to sing as you tackle the thing
That “cannot be done,” and you’ll do it.”

Edgar A. Guest, poet, 1881 – 1959

 

 

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