Jan 052010
 
Look Right Into My Heart

Look Right Into My Heart (Photo credit: Kat Northern Lights Man)

 

According to the article sent by a friend, seven year old Jonathon Slack cried when he saw a woman holding a sign saying that she and her son had no place to stay. And later that evening he asked his Mom to drive him back into the city so that he could give his $6 to the woman and her son.

The family determined that there might, in fact, be bigger and better ways to help. So young Jonathon organized a ten-day donation drive that resulted in more than four truckloads of food and toys being delivered to the Su Casa Catholic Worker homeless shelter in Chicago.

Aside from the compassion and generosity, there is another reason that I like this story. One of the great building blocks that parents can give their children is the knowledge that, even in the face of an overwhelming problem, there is something that they can do… some action, small or large, that can be taken.

We can complain about world problems and wish that “somebody” would “do something” or we can teach out kids that every bit of kindness and generosity that they can show to others makes a difference.

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Nov 042009
 

That’s not a question too many parents ask.  But bullying may be on your daughter’s mind.  You might be able to steer to some good information (for bullies and for victims) by directing her this quiz    http://www.girlshealth.gov/bullying/quizzes/quiz.bullying.cfm    on the Girls’ Health site sponsored by the Department of Health and Human Services.

The site is dedicated to helping girls between the ages of 10 and 16 make healthy, positive choices.  In addition to bullying, topics include health, fitness, relationships, substance abuse prevention, nutrition and the future.

The site gives girls reliable information about the issues and pressures many of them encounter as they become young women. 

Many teens are unaware that giving someone the silent treatment, calling names, gossiping or texting to spread rumors are all forms of bullying.  Taking the quiz together may be a great way to open a conversation – to find out what your daughters think and how they feel about victims and perpetrators.  How do they relate to those who are different?  Those who may be less popular or less powerful?

The Girls Health tagline is “Be Happy. Be Healthy. Be You. Beautiful.” Imagine a site devoted to showing our daughters that being themselves is what makes women truly beautiful!

Jul 212009
 

“I’m a water skier, Mom!”  With his arms raised high and a smile from ear to ear, those were Matthew’s words as he sailed back to the pier in his adaptive ski chair on Bangs Lake in Wauconda, Illinois.  

Inspired by their volunteer work at the Dreams for Kids 20th Anniversary Holiday for Hope celebration, Ron and Liz Roberts had decided it was possible to bring this kind of magic to their “home” lake.    

Why not?  Liz did what comes naturally: she called, she organized, she planned, and enrolled people.  Hearing of what could take place on their lake, each of their neighbors, friends and their kids heard the call and each one answered.  In their answers came the simple words, which have defined Dreams for Kids for 20 years: “I can do that.” 

At the same time, all across Illinois, there were 50 kids who did not know their lives were about to change.  Each of them lives with different strengths and weaknesses; however, unlike many of us, their disabilities have led them to be classified as someone other than “just a kid.”  Cerebral Palsy. Spina Bifida. Autism. These are words which society has imposed on them as limitation rather than possibility.  They know these words do not define who they are.  They know how the world could be.    

At 10 am that morning, Ron Richards put his arms around the first kid off the bus, sat him into his adaptive water ski chair and guided him into the water.  However, at this moment Matthew was consumed with fear, rather than excitement.  His first words were, “I am not going. I can’t do this.”  

Having spent his young life with his dreams hidden from view, and no opportunity in sight, Matthew was afraid.  As Ron reassured him, that, yes, he could do it, and that he would have the time of his life, Matthew held on tight and trusted that this all could be possible.  The ski boat pulled away and Matthew disappeared onto the lake, into a world only he could describe, and one the rest of us could only imagine as we watched from the shore.  When we saw him next, Matthew was transformed.  

No one will ever forget his smile, and his voice rang proud with words of pure joy – “I’m a water skier, Mom!” 

Adapted from an article by Tom Tuohy, Founder and President of Dreams for Kids.  For more information on DFK, click here www.dreamsforkids.org